This maybe kicking a dead horse but I thought I'd do some show and tell about the differences between the Jayracing.com and Pegasus Racing Fuel sock.
Jayracing fitting (left) vs Pegasus Racing (right) note the stand-offs (or like a castle nut like Sabre002 was saying)
Pegasus fuel sock is deeper than the Jayracing
Pegasus Racing fuel sock sits significantly lower when assembled.
I split the check valve that came with the Bosch 044 pump and used it as on extension (piece on the right)
TADAH!
The total height works out pretty good!
Sock is now to the bottom of the tank again.
But I am still getting some craziness with my fuel pressure. The gauge is REALLY erratic. It's practically bouncing 20-80 faster than I can see it. Problem went away when I added the -8AN crossover, but now it's back when I started playing with everything. Could my regulator be bad?